Stop Chasing Love. Become Someone Who Is Chosen.
Attachment & Identity-Level Relationship Coaching
I guide men and women through deep identity transformation- healing attachment at the root so love feels calm, passionate, mutual, and built to last.
Create Secure, Devoted Love That Lasts
You give more.
You carry more.
You succeed in your career.
You hold it together.
But in love, something shifts.
You over-function.
Or you withdraw.
You spiral in anxiety.
You chase.
Or you protect yourself by staying guarded.
Not because you’re broken —
but because your nervous system learned how to try to protect connection.
You don’t need to become someone else to be chosen.
You need to become secure enough to stop abandoning yourself.
If you’ve always been the strong one…
This Is Identity-Level Relationship Work.
This isn’t about understanding your attachment style. It’s about transforming the patterns that drive it.
I help you:
• Rewire the patterns driving it
• Regulate your nervous system
• Strengthen your relational boundaries
• Build emotional leadership
• Become secure at your core
So that love feels stable — not activating.
Your Path to Relational Mastery
Foundation – Community
Free Community
A private group for men and women healing attachment patterns and learning the foundations of secure connection.
Transformation – CHOSEN
CHOSEN: The Identity Reset
90-day identity reset for those ready to stop chasing and become secure in love.
Mastery – Premium Coaching
Premium Coaching
Deep, high-touch 1:1 or couples coaching for long-term transformation and repair.
More than a coach — I’m a guide for those ready to stop shrinking, chasing, or guarding in love.
With a Master’s in Counseling Psychology and years of deep relational work, I bridge clinical understanding with transformational embodiment.
This isn’t therapy.
And it isn’t surface-level coaching.
It’s structured, grounded identity recalibration — inside a safe, high-integrity container.
Meet Jenn Wolfe
Real People. Real Identity Shifts. Real Secure Love.
“I went from feeling lost in my relationships to thriving with clarity and confidence, thanks to Jenn's unique coaching approach… and I met my person.”
“Working with Jenn completely transformed my relationship and my life- I've never felt more empowered and at peace with who I am.”
“Jenn's guidance helped me break through patterns I thought I'd be stuck in forever. My marriage and personal growth have never been stronger.”
Ready to Become Secure at Your Core?
You don’t need more advice. You need to become secure at your core. Let’s begin…