Stop Chasing Avoidant Men.
Become the Secure Woman Who Is Chosen.
You’re successful in every area of life — except love.
I help high-achieving women break anxious-avoidant patterns and attract grounded, masculine partnership.
Create Secure, Devoted Love That Lasts
You give more.
You care more.
You try harder.
And still, something feels off.
You may find yourself:
Overthinking texts and conversations
Chasing emotional closeness
Feeling like you’re always the one holding the relationship together
Repeatedly attracting emotionally unavailable or avoidant men
Secretly wondering why love feels so hard
Feeling powerful in your career but powerless in love
You’re successful, capable, and strong in so many areas of life.
But in love, you feel anxious, unchosen, or emotionally alone.
It doesn’t have to stay that way.
Secure love isn’t about finding the perfect partner. It’s about becoming a secure person.
When you become secure:
• You stop overthinking texts.
• You stop chasing emotional closeness.
• Your standards rise.
• You naturally attract grounded men.
You stop chasing love.
And start becoming someone who is naturally chosen.
Work With Me
Private 1:1 Coaching
Break anxious-avoidant patterns. Reclaim your feminine power. Become secure and chosen.
Meet Jenn Wolfe
I’m a relationship coach with a Master’s degree in Counseling Psychology, and I specialize in helping high-achieving women break anxious-avoidant relationship patterns and create secure love.
But this work is also deeply personal.
In the first year of my own marriage, my husband and I were on the brink of divorce. He shut down for months, and I felt anxious, devastated, and completely alone.
Learning about attachment, emotional safety, and nervous system healing didn’t just save our relationship- it transformed it.
Today, we have a deeply secure partnership, a family, and a shared creative life.
My work is a blend of:
Psychology
Attachment science
Trauma-informed coaching
Masculine–feminine dynamics
Identity-level transformation
This is the work I now guide my clients through every day.
Real People. Real Transformation.
“I went from feeling lost in my relationships to thriving with clarity and confidence, thanks to Jenn's unique coaching approach… and I met my person.”
“Working with Jenn completely transformed my relationship and my life- I've never felt more empowered and at peace with who I am.”
“Jenn's guidance helped me break through patterns I thought I'd be stuck in forever. My marriage and personal growth have never been stronger.”
Ready to stop chasing and start being chosen?