Become Secure. Be Chosen.
I help high-achieving women heal anxious attachment, reclaim their feminine energy, and attract secure, lasting love- without overgiving or self-abandoning.
Stop chasing love. Start creating the relationship you deserve.
If you’ve always been the strong one…
You give more. You care more. You’ve read the books. You’ve done the therapy.
And still… you end up in relationships where you feel:
• Unchosen • Anxious • Overextended • Emotionally alone
So you push harder. You overfunction. You overgive.
Not because you're weak- because your nervous system is trying to protect love.
And no one ever taught you another way.
You don’t need to become someone else to be loved.
You need to become secure in who you already are.
- Jenn Wolfe
Your Path to Secure, Chosen Love
Free Community
🫂 Free Community
A private group for healing avoidant/anxious patterns with support & sisterhood.
Backed by The Wolfe Method™, each offer is designed to help you stop chasing love- and become deeply chosen.
CHOSEN
🌹 CHOSEN Program
90-day 1:1 coaching to heal anxious attachment, restore feminine energy, and build secure, lasting love.
Premium Coaching
💎 Premium Coaching
Deep, high-touch 1:1 or couples coaching for long-term transformation and repair.
Meet Jenn Wolfe
More than a coach- your guide to secure love, feminine embodiment, and being truly chosen.
Jenn Wolfe is a transformational coach for high-achieving women who are tired of overgiving, overthinking, and never quite feeling chosen in love.
With a Master’s in Counseling Psychology and a background in Marriage and Family Therapy, Jenn blends trauma-informed depth with clear, forward-moving coaching tools to help you:
Heal anxious attachment
Return to your feminine energy
Stop chasing unavailable love
Create safe, secure relationships
After nearly losing her own marriage in the first year, Jenn did the work to transform her anxious–avoidant dynamic into a deeply secure, loving partnership. Now she helps others do the same.
Through her signature Wolfe Method™, she guides clients from anxious and overextended to calm, chosen, and deeply supported-without abandoning themselves in the process.
“I went from feeling lost in my relationships to thriving with clarity and confidence, thanks to Jenn's unique coaching approach… and I met my person.”
“Working with Jenn completely transformed my relationship and my life—I've never felt more empowered and at peace with who I am.”
“Jenn's guidance helped me break through patterns I thought I'd be stuck in forever. My marriage and personal growth have never been stronger.”
You don’t have to keep chasing love.
You can become someone who feels secure, chosen, and deeply loved- without overgiving or losing yourself.